{"id":3378,"date":"2021-05-20T08:34:32","date_gmt":"2021-05-20T06:34:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/?p=3378"},"modified":"2021-05-20T08:40:46","modified_gmt":"2021-05-20T06:40:46","slug":"co-je-to-separacni-uzkost","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/2021\/05\/20\/co-je-to-separacni-uzkost\/","title":{"rendered":"Co je to separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkost?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

SEPARA\u010cN\u00cd \u00daZKOST<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkost je p\u0159irozenou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed v\u00fdvoje d\u00edt\u011bte. Jedn\u00e1 se o \u00fazkost, kter\u00e1 se projevuje, kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b odd\u011bleno od matky. Souvis\u00ed s t\u00edm i d\u011btsk\u00e9 strachy, nap\u0159\u00edklad strach ze tmy nebo z ciz\u00edch lid\u00ed. M\u00edra \u00fazkosti se odv\u00edj\u00ed od toho, jak moc je d\u00edt\u011b citov\u011b v\u00e1z\u00e1no na sv\u00e9ho rodi\u010de, v\u00fdhradn\u011b na matku.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

V\u011bt\u0161inou se objevuje mezi 7. a 18. m\u011bs\u00edcem \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte. D\u00edt\u011b si v tuto dobu za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat, kte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011bj ciz\u00ed a se kter\u00fdmi m\u00e1 naopak velice bl\u00edzk\u00fd vztah (sourozenec, rodi\u010de).  Typick\u00e9 pro tuto \u00fazkost je batolec\u00ed obdob\u00ed. V batolec\u00edm obdob\u00ed se za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 projevovat osobnost d\u00edt\u011bte (nap\u0159. obdob\u00ed vzdoru). D\u00edt\u011b si uv\u011bdomuje sv\u00e9 \u201ej\u00e1\u201c. Pr\u00e1v\u011b s koncem batolec\u00edho obdob\u00ed (3. rok d\u00edt\u011bte) by m\u011bla separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkost zmizet.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00dazkost m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt patrn\u00e1 je\u0161t\u011b i v tu dobu, kdy d\u00edt\u011b nastoup\u00ed do \u0161kolky. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b je individu\u00e1ln\u00ed. M\u016f\u017ee tak svou vazbu na matku p\u0159eru\u0161it i v jin\u00fd \u010das, ne\u017e je \u201espr\u00e1vn\u011b\u201c ud\u00e1v\u00e1no. Separace od matky je ale velice d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e1. D\u00edt\u011b si tak utvo\u0159\u00ed vlastn\u00ed identitu, vlastn\u00ed osobnost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

F\u00e1ze separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkosti<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. F\u00e1ze protestu \u2013 <\/strong>snaha o p\u0159ivol\u00e1n\u00ed matky k\u0159ikem<\/li>
  2. F\u00e1ze zoufalstv\u00ed \u2013 <\/strong>postupn\u00e1 apatie a ztr\u00e1ta nad\u011bje, d\u00edt\u011b nenavazuje kontakty s ostatn\u00edmi lidmi<\/li>
  3. F\u00e1ze odpout\u00e1n\u00ed se od matky \u2013 <\/strong>d\u00edt\u011b potla\u010duje sv\u00e9 city k matce<\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Jak s d\u00edt\u011btem pracovat?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    P\u0159i ka\u017ed\u00e9m odchodu d\u00edt\u011bti pravdiv\u011b sd\u011blte z jak\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu a kam odch\u00e1z\u00edte. Je d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby d\u00edt\u011b v\u011bd\u011blo, \u017ee se vr\u00e1t\u00edte a bylo si jist\u00e9, \u017ee se tak stane. N\u011bkdy se u d\u011bt\u00ed m\u016f\u017eou objevit r\u016fzn\u00e9 zvyky (kous\u00e1n\u00ed neht\u016f). Jsou to tzv. kompenza\u010dn\u00ed zvyky. D\u00edt\u011b se tak s \u00fazkost\u00ed l\u00e9pe vyrovn\u00e1v\u00e1.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkostn\u00e1 porucha<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Pokud d\u00edt\u011b jev\u00ed velk\u00e9 zn\u00e1mky \u00fazkosti a strachu p\u0159i odlou\u010den\u00ed od jemu bl\u00edzk\u00fdch osob, a\u0165 u\u017e je odlou\u010den\u00ed re\u00e1ln\u00e9 \u010di nikoliv, m\u016f\u017ee se jednat o tzv. separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkostnou poruchu (SAD). D\u00edt\u011b je velice vystresovan\u00e9 a m\u00e1 pocit, \u017ee se jemu bl\u00edzk\u00e9 osoby u\u017e nevr\u00e1t\u00ed a \u017ee z\u016fstane samo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Tato porucha se \u0159ad\u00ed mezi Emo\u010dn\u00ed poruchy se za\u010d\u00e1tkem specifick\u00fdm pro d\u011btstv\u00ed (Mezin\u00e1rodn\u00ed klasifikace nemoc\u00ed, ozna\u010den\u00e1 jako F93.0). P\u0159etrv\u00e1 u 3 \u2013 5 % d\u011bt\u00ed. M\u016f\u017ee se projevovat i bolestmi hlavy a \u017ealudku, zvracen\u00edm, ale nap\u0159\u00edklad i zv\u00fd\u0161en\u00fdmi teplotami \u010di ka\u0161lem. Takto si d\u00edt\u011b somatizuje b\u011b\u017en\u00e9 nemoci. V\u017edy se projev\u00ed, kdy\u017e se d\u00edt\u011b by\u0165 jen domn\u00edv\u00e1, \u017ee bude odlou\u010deno od matky.  V pozd\u011bj\u0161\u00edm v\u011bku se m\u016f\u017ee projevovat i p\u0159i n\u00e1stupu do \u0161koly, tzv. \u0161koln\u00ed fobie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    Jeliko\u017e tato \u00fazkost m\u016f\u017ee m\u00edt podle studi\u00ed do budoucna i n\u00e1sledky, jako nap\u0159\u00edklad agorafobie, m\u011bla by se odborn\u011b \u0159e\u0161it. A\u0165 u\u017e u d\u011btsk\u00e9ho psychologa nebo formou terapie.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    SEPARA\u010cN\u00cd \u00daZKOST Separa\u010dn\u00ed \u00fazkost je p\u0159irozenou sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed v\u00fdvoje d\u00edt\u011bte. Jedn\u00e1 se o \u00fazkost, kter\u00e1 se projevuje, kdy\u017e je d\u00edt\u011b odd\u011bleno od matky. Souvis\u00ed s t\u00edm i d\u011btsk\u00e9 strachy, nap\u0159\u00edklad strach ze tmy nebo z ciz\u00edch lid\u00ed. M\u00edra \u00fazkosti se odv\u00edj\u00ed od toho, jak moc je d\u00edt\u011b citov\u011b v\u00e1z\u00e1no na sv\u00e9ho rodi\u010de, v\u00fdhradn\u011b na matku. V\u011bt\u0161inou se objevuje mezi 7. a 18. m\u011bs\u00edcem \u017eivota d\u00edt\u011bte. D\u00edt\u011b si v tuto dobu za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 uv\u011bdomovat, kte\u0159\u00ed lid\u00e9 jsou pro n\u011bj ciz\u00ed a se kter\u00fdmi m\u00e1 naopak velice bl\u00edzk\u00fd vztah (sourozenec, rodi\u010de).  Typick\u00e9 pro tuto \u00fazkost je batolec\u00ed obdob\u00ed. V batolec\u00edm obdob\u00ed se za\u010d\u00edn\u00e1 projevovat osobnost d\u00edt\u011bte (nap\u0159. obdob\u00ed\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":3381,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3378","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-nezarazene"],"blocksy_meta":"","featured_image_urls":{"full":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false],"medium_large":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false],"large":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/tymosia.cz\/holkazblazince\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/05\/Aspergers-and-Separation-Anxiety.jpg",225,225,false]},"post_excerpt_stackable":"

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